Keeping Your College Crib Up and Running

By Sammy K

When you move in with roommates, chance are you both have your own definitions of clean or what chores are necessary around the house. In order to keep the peace and a clean and fresh living space, this is a crucial discussion to have with your new roomies.

First, let the need for conversation be known. If you spring it on your roommates unexpectedly, it may seem aggressive or accusatory. Avoid this with a casual conversation invite. Once you’re all able to get together and sit down, whip out some paper and pens and get to work.

Go around the table and ask everyone what they think needs to be done daily/weekly/monthly in order to keep the house clean. Do they mind a little mess sometimes? How do they handle a dirty dish? You should be aware of all of these things. After you establish everyone’s definition of clean, ask what kind of chores they’re used to doing and would be willing to do.

Establish a cleaning schedule. A chore chart is a great way to illustrate what needs to be done and when and by who. For example, on Mondays you’re responsible for dishes, roommate x is responsible for vacuuming, and roommate y is responsible for dusting and general pick up. Once every chore is done, a simple check next to it can show you who has been keeping up. Even without a check, lack of cleaning will become evident!

Communicating is important for all aspects of living together, but be open with each other about an inability to complete your task. If you have a packed schedule this week, give your roommates a heads up. People are much more understanding when we’re honest and up front. Ask a roommate if they can spot you or if you can swap chores with them for this week and take on a little extra the following week.

I know this sounds like a preachy mom post, but your clean habits might differ and your small mess might drive your super clean freak roomie insane. Save yourself the drama and give yourselves a peace of mind.

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